At first, the relationship between an empath and a narcissist can seem great. The empath gives, and the narcissist takes. The empath listens, supports, and shows love, while the narcissist soaks up the attention and admiration.
But soon, things start to feel off. The empath starts to feel drained, overwhelmed, or even unappreciated. The narcissist, on the other hand, might not notice or care. They are often more focused on themselves, and they may not give much back to the empath. They don’t understand the emotional toll they’re putting on the other person because, in their eyes, they are the most important person in the room.
Here’s how the tension can build up:
- The narcissist expects constant praise and admiration, while the empath feels like their kindness isn’t being recognized.
- The empath wants a deep emotional connection, but the narcissist may only care about their own needs, not taking the time to understand or care about the empath’s emotions.
- The narcissist uses manipulation or guilt trips, making the empath feel like they must help or be there for them, even when it’s hurting the empath.
Remember: Healthy relationships require give and take from both sides, and narcissists typically aren’t good at giving back. The empath may need to set boundaries, practice self-care, and sometimes walk away from relationships where their kindness isn’t being respected.